In Love Willingly Receive | Lesson 3

Jan 14, 2026    Josh Strelecki

Josh Strelecki, Pastor-Teacher, delves into the intricacies of the book of Philemon, exploring its themes of forgiveness and reconciliation. He elucidates the pastoral nature of Paul's epistle to Philemon, despite Philemon not being a pastor himself, by highlighting its role in addressing personal issues within the church hosted at Philemon’s home. Strelecki explains Paul's appeal for love over authority, emphasizing that Paul could have commanded Philemon to forgive Onesimus, his runaway servant, but instead chose to beseech him out of love. This beseeching, grounded in Philemon's character and Paul's apostolic authority, underscores the transformative power of the gospel and the importance of willing, grace-motivated reconciliation among believers.


Strelecki further explores the roles of repentance and change as essential precursors to forgiveness and acceptance, using Onesimus' conversion and subsequent journey back to Philemon as a vivid example. He underscores the importance of a contrite heart and genuine repentance in facilitating true forgiveness and restoration of relationships within the Christian community. By analyzing Paul's role as an intercessor and substitute, Strelecki draws parallels to Christ's role in our reconciliation with God, urging the congregation to embrace similar actions in their relationships. He contrasts worldly forgiveness with divine, Christ-like forgiveness, stressing the deep, genuine bonds that are strengthened through the transformative power of love and grace, a power that believers should actively demonstrate in their interactions with others.